That Extra Bit Of Lust

So, what if u got married, love your spouse truly and still feel the need to want be unfaithful? Besides breeching the sanctity of marriage, is it really that bad? It's faithfulness VS the carnal need for the pleasure of the flesh.

I have a friend 'Rachel' (not her real name of course) who decided that life is too short to be living it all sexually frustrated and 'lonely'. She's married, no kids (thank god) and her husband works too late too often to spend enough time on her and at her. So, in the roles reversed, it is POSSIBLE that women are equally guilty when it comes to extra-marital affairs.

Weighing her conscience and realising that she can live with it, Rachel embarks on a journey in search for those sexual other beings (note that it's a multiple and not singular). As much as she still loves her hubby, Rachel has decided that variety is better. Not trying to add salt to injury (if her husband was reading this), she's mentioned that she's not had great sex in years and now, she's living the 'high' life and wanting it even more.

So, how does this work out? She said, "Don't get caught! And remember, sex is just sex is just sex. Emotions aside, keep sex as it is and leave the honey dripping words of affection out of the picture!" She too, like myself, have had previous experience of men gushing verbally with words and proclamations of LOVE (seriously, it's not just women who do that) when all you seek is pleasure.

Turned off rather than on, tangles and twists like this are really not something she looks forward to and as casual and flippant she is about her escapades, she throws her heart back to her husband and family. This is truly confounding. A degree of seperation and will power can really do so much? Love a person BUT sleep with another... We are truly an amazing breed, if you can handle it that is!